Yeah was forced to go down the engineering route. I’m not saying your parents are toothless because you’re still financially dependent, but you are more powerful, braver and stronger than you realise. You of course are the elephant and your parents are the chain. I can’t tell you because I did anything proactive so it never stopped. What would your dad do if you reported him to the police for assault? Can you document the assaults, record them if possible? Would your parents financially cut you off if you made them face legal consequences for their domestic abuse? Maybe post a question asking how people got their parent to stop beating them. Your dad hitting you is unacceptable, it can’t carry on. What would happen if you point blank refused to do engineering? I’m assuming your dad would assault you. Will you consider doing therapy because it might teach you the tools to stand up to your parents, break free of their coercive control and change degrees. It’s so unfair that you can’t get student loans.Īre you applying to a faraway university so you at least don’t have to live with your parents for the next 3-4 years? If you are not mathematically or scientifically inclined you’re going to have a tough time doing engineering and you won’t enjoy your subject. However, 18 isn’t some magical number were you gain adulting powers and if you’re financially dependent on your parents it’s very, very hard (not impossible) and scary to assert your rights and gain freedom. Some parents will never give you your adulthood, you just have to take it.
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